Clearing the Need for Love and Approval

In an ideal world, every child who comes to this planet is loved, wanted and cherished. He has parents that are on a similar frequency, so that communication is easy.

Since Earth is currently still operating on a light-dark paradigm, this is not always the case. One of the biggest challenges I see for Sensitives / Old Souls / Star Seeds is the lack of unconditional love during childhood.

Lack of unconditional love from parents occurs for many reasons: the parents have their own issues, and are simply not capable of operating from love; the parents are on a lower level of consciousness than child, and deep connection is not possible; I have even seen children who came in with high frequencies and scared their fear-based parents, because in the inverted paradigm light seems dark.

This lack of unconditional love leaves a wound in the Adult. It can be especially challenging for Inuitives / Old Souls / Star Seeds because they have deep recollections of enlightened childhood – these are memories of childhood being sacred, of children being consciously called in, and deeply cherished by their parents. These are memories of other times or solar systems where entire societies have reached higher levels of consciousness and harmoniously co-exist.

This wound, this lack of unconditional love, creates a call for healing and often an unconscious urge to recreate the scenario. This karmic loop will play itself out, over and over again, until the lesson is learned on this plane.

I’ve seen this lack of unconditional love in children play out as a need for love and approval in adults. When self-love is low, a simple pat on the head can activate this longing. Many empaths find themselves in this trap, where they shape-shift and people please to win even a smidgeon of love and approval from others. This is the disempowered use of empathic skills. The empowered empath stays in his own feeling body, and fills her own cup. Sensitivity is used as a tool.

One of the best tools I’ve found for healing the need for love and approval – whose flip side is the wound of lack of unconditional love in childhood – is Timeline Healing. Timeline Healing is a trauma release tool that uses love frequency to clear negative imprints. Timeline Healing clears negative imprints on the mental, emotional, astral, etheric and karmic levels. I’ve observed that people who have this wound have very leaky, weak auras and are caught in a victim-aggressor cycle when it comes to love. In Timeline Healing, I’ve seen this wound resolve on the etheric level, so that the aura strengthens and the unconscious leaks stop. The person no longer feels drained being around others. Timeline Healing also clears the mental-emotional pattern of being a victim in need of other people to love them. The love frequency offered reminds the recipient that their Divine Self is the source of their love, and that they only need to align with it. Then, the outer reality shifts and loving relationships enter as a reflection of this alignment.